People don't like blunt honesty. Especially when it contrasts their beliefs or ideas, and makes them feel uncomfortable. It seems I offend people with special ease. I don't particularly like this, but I also am not going to sugar coat everything I say. If I say something, I do make a point of making sure that it's correct. If it's not correct I will do my best to change it, or make it right. It's almost humorous sometimes, how angry and vexed some people get when you say something outright or bold. I know that it's hard to take. I don't like it either. That doesn't change the fact though. People will always need to hear things that they don't want to hear, and someone is always going to tell them.
In my own life I struggle with listening to people who are telling me things that I know are right and that really goes against my grain. It's called having a conscience which God has placed within us to search our thoughts and motivations (Proverbs 20:27). At times it's those little nudges that have pushed me to overcome my selfishness and be obedient to God!
I am one of those people who doesn't like being wrong. When I discuss things with other people like this, it can get to be a very heated discussion! What a lot of people don't realize is that when they are trying to tell you that you are judging other people too much (which is often what the debate is about) is that they start to judge you just as much or perhaps even more than you were judging another.
Can I always practice what I preach? No, I certainly cannot! But if everyone were simply to stop preaching because they weren't in perfect alignment to what they said, then no one would know the truth. It's a sharing of truth.
"For what I am doing, I do not understand; for I am not practicing what I would like to do, but I am doing the very thing I hate. But if I do the very thing I do not want to do, I agree with the Law, confessing that the Law is good. So now, no longer am I the one doing it, but sin which dwells in me. For I know that nothing good dwells in me, that is, in my flesh; for the willing is present in me, but the doing of the good is not. For the good that I want to, I do not do, but I practice the very evil that I do not want. But if I am doing the very thing I do not want, I am no longer the one doing it, but sin which dwells in me. I find then the principle that evil is present in me, the one who wants to do good. For I joyfully concur with the law of God in the inner man, but I see a different law in the members of my body, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin which is in my members. Wretched man that I am! Who will set me free from the body of this death? Thanks be to God through Christ Jesus our Lord! So then, on the one hand I myself with my mind am serving the law of God, but on the other, with my flesh the law of sin. Romans 7:15-25
Share the truth, take in the truth, don't read this, you'll be offended.